OLISHA’S THREE PRINCIPLES OF SEDUCTION

There are three overarching principles of seduction and psychosexual domination. All are direct corollaries of the secret sexual cravings and underlying psychological drivers explained in What Men REALLY Want: Sexology of the Modern Male Mind. They are,

Principle I: The Door to the Sexual Dimension

The Principle of the Door to the Sexual Dimension states that when your man gets excited —typically but not always indicated by him having an erection— the door to his fantasy land begins to open. When the door is closed, a man may even resent his sexual fantasies. Thus, the transition across the threshold to the Sexual Dimension should not startle or awaken. No hard rejection, no scorn, and no ridicule should be associated with his subordination. At least not early on. You judiciously exploit the Principle of the Door to the Sexual Dimension to coax and guide your man out of his internalized repression and help him realize his deepest wishes to subjugate himself to you.

Principle II: Demonstrative Subjugation

The Principle of Demonstrative Subjugation explains that every interaction you have with your sexual partner, every gesture, touch, moan, or other non-speech utterance, even your attitude, is all part of a sexual discourse. Like a spoken language, it carries messages beyond immediate sexual stimulation that your partner will interpret and understand—whether he admits he understands it or not. Buried in every message you send to him will be that you dominate. You are superior. The message tap into his primordial sexual cravings that we see in What Men REALLY Want, the cravings and conflicts that all men—and women—share.

Principle III: Verbal Reinforcement

When it comes to sex, a picture is worth 1,000 words. Experience is codified in our brains as language. In our mind’s eye we see images and those images have meaning to us and excite us, but it is words that define exactly what that meaning is. Words define what we want and what is happening. They make our wants concrete. In this sense, words can be more powerful than images. It’s words that articulate thoughts and, in doing so, give images significance. Words are the mechanism by which we bring cravings and thoughts into the domain of consciousness. The problem with words is that they pinpoint what is being done. Talking during sex runs the risk of shocking your man and awakening him from the sexual dream. This means that, early on in his reorientation, you should go easy with verbal reinforcement. The display of your power should begin with the subtle and unspoken gestures and seduction of Demonstrative Subjugation. But as your man begins to accept his role, you will increasingly use Verbal Reinforcement.

OLISHA’S NINE DIRECT PHYSICAL LAWS OF SEDUCTION

Direct Physical Laws are the hardware in your tool kit of seduction. They involve you doing some kind of touching—such as fondling and kissing—that telegraph your superiority to your man; or they involve your man doing some kind of touching that acknowledges his submission to you—such as massaging, licking, and/or sucking. There are,

Law I: Fondling & Fidgeting

Law II: Caressing, Touching, Holding

Law III: The Nipple

Law IV: Penetration

Law V: The Mouth

Law VI: The Kiss

Law VII: Licking, Sucking, & Suckling

Law VIII: Oral Sex

Law IX: His Aperture

OLISHA’S NINE INTERMEDIATE STRUCTURAL LAWS OF SEDUCTION

Intermediate Structural Laws fall between physical and behavioral. They can be thought of as Structural. They deal with how you present yourself and your needs, as emphasized in the Law of Ecstasy; and how you emphasize your womanhood, as in the Law of Femininity & Adornment. They deal with the importance of your man’s senses, as with the Law of Scent, Taste, and Hygiene, and the Law of Sensory Deprivation. They deal with taking control of your man’s hygiene, clothes, and grooming habits, as with the Law of Grooming Routines. Intermediate Structural Laws also deal with the immediate environment where you seduce your man, as with the Law of Safe Spaces and the Law of Security Blankets & Fetishes. It is with the Intermediate laws that we begin to emphasize the Principle of Verbal Reinforcement. Here is a list of the Intermediate laws:

Law X: Safe Spaces

Law XI: Scent, Taste, & Hygiene

Law XII: Security Blankets & Fetishes

Law XIII: Femininity & Adornment

Law XIV: Ecstasy

Law XV: Sensory Deprivation

Law XVI: Grooming Routines

Law XVII: Positioning

Law XVIII: Gestures

OLISHA’S NINETEEN BEHAVIORAL LAWS OF SEDUCTION

Behavioral laws are the software in your toolkit of seduction. They deal with the way you act and treat your man. You can know where to touch your man’s body—the physical laws—you can know in what context and what accoutrements should accompany seduction– but if you don’t understand how, how much, when, and with what kind of attitude to touch him, you won’t get far. These are Remote Behavioral Laws:

Law XIX: Expectation

Law XX: Denial & Gratification

Law XXI: Sympathy & Pity

Law XXII: Expected Submission

Law XXIII: Valued Submission

Law XXIV: Not Giving Him What He Wants

Law XXV: Minimal & Maximal Effort

Law XXVI: Sacrifice

Law XXVII: Subordinate Rectification

Law XXVIII: Orgasm

Law XXIX: Exclusive Access

Law XXX: Infantilization

Law XXXI: Exposure

Law XXXII: Feminization

Law XXIII: A Little Jealousy

Law XXXIV: Reassurance

Law XXXV: Intimacy, Confidence, & Trust

Law XXXVI: Privacy, Dignity, & Respect

Law XXXVII: No Return